How to Finger a Girl
Have you ever wanted to become a god in bed? There is no 1-step fix to reach this but this site will help you in the area of 'manual stimulation'.
There is a very well known adage, "There's more than one way to skin a cat." That statement couldn't pertain more to anything than it does to providing your partner with sexual gratification. Learning how to finger a girl, a.k.a. pussy fingering, properly will provide you with just one more weapon to add your your sexual arsenal.
Here are the basic steps in providing a woman with wonderful manual stimulation that she will never forget:
This step could very well be considered the most important step of them all.
Before any serious female stimulation of her nether regions, attention must be paid to her mental state. It is said that the brain is the body's largest sex organ, if the woman's brain isn't turned on, her vagina won't be either. If her vagina isn't ready for action then any direct friction could be very uncomfortable, even painful, for her due to a lack of her own body's lubricant.
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Know where everything is, this may seem silly to many but for those of you who are new to the scene or those who just have never paid attention I will very quickly go over the two main parts of a vagina that you need to know. (There are others but to start with make sure you know the two 'biggies'.)
1) The clitoris - The clit is a small bulbous area just north of the vaginal entrance, it is covered by the clitoral hood, the clit size varies a bit from woman to woman and can sometimes be a bit hidden. When pussy fingering, this is often the most accessible and easiest way to get a woman off.
2) The g-spot - The ever elusive g-spot is also called the Urethral Sponge and is on the upper part of the vaginal wall. A quick way to locate it is to insert a your middle finger into the vagina, curl it a bit inward so you are placing more pressure on the top of the vaginal cavity and start to feel around a little. Try to locate an area that seems a bit out of place and has a slightly spongy texture, when aroused the g-spot will swell a little, making it easier to find.
This is where female stimulation can get a little tricky. Number three isn't an action really but it's something very important to keep in mind before you really get going.
Every woman is different, some women can reach orgasm through g-spot stimulation alone, some can only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation and some women have such sensitive clits they find any direct stimulation on them to be uncomfortable. So if you don't know the style of the woman you are 'handling', so to speak, be sure to ask. It's ok to talk about it, you are doing this for her so don't you want to do it the way she finds the most enjoyable?
And never forget that you can't just start manipulating a woman's vagina before she's ready. If you haven't gotten her aroused then don't try it unless she asks, it's a sure fire way to make thins uncomfortable for her.
